• 旁观者: Anyone in the community who sees or hears about a behavior that could lead to something high risk or harmful. 每个旁观者都面临同样的选择, “Do I get involved 和 try to make things better, 还是我忽略了这种情况?”
• 基于权力的个人暴力: Forms of violence that use power, control 和/or intimidation in order to harm another.
• 跟踪: A course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear.
• 约会/家庭暴力: A pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power 和 control over another intimate partner. 约会/家庭暴力可能是身体暴力, 性, 情感, economic or psychological actions or threats that influence another person.
• 性侵犯: Any type of 性 contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient.
• 障碍: 阻止我们参与其中的事情. Barriers can be social, relationship, personal or physical.

 

红点

在某个时刻，某人的话语, choices or actions contribute to power-based personal violence in some way

例子:

• The choice to have sex with someone without their consent.
• The choice to continue to text/call/message someone after being asked to stop.
• The choice to physically harm another person.

绿点

在某个时刻，某人的话语, choices or actions reduce the likelihood that someone will be harmed by violence or proactively communicate an intolerance for violence

主动与. 无功

活性绿点 are things that are done in response to a potential red dot.

例子:

• The choice to directly ask a friend to stop incessantly texting an ex.
• The choice to create a distraction by setting off a car alarm in a parking lot w在这里 one person is screaming at another in an intimidating manner.
• The choice to call on a friend or peer to help you get a friend to safety that is being bot在这里d at a party.

主动绿点 are things you can do every day in your life that express your commitment to 绿点 和 ending violence on our campus.

例子:

• The choice to post a message on social media about why byst和er intervention is important.
• The choice to encourage friends to attend a 绿点 training.
• The choice to role model to incoming students 和 peers that power-based personal violence is not okay with you.

直接

直接ly inserting yourself into a potential red dot situation 和 stopping it by addressing those who are involved.

例子:

• Asking someone who seems uncomfortable or unsure if they are ok.
• Checking in with someone who appears overly intoxicated 和 offering to get them home safely
• Telling your friends that you think their joke about 性 assault is offensive.

委托

If you feel unsafe or uncomfortable stepping in yourself, getting someone to intervene for you who might be more equipped or better able to h和le the situation.

例子:

• Call a nearby authority figure (professor, RA, staff member, etc.)，请他们帮忙.
• If it’s not an emergency 和 you want to report anonymously: fill out a CARE form, Sexual Misconduct 和 Gender-Based Violence form, 或偏见浩博体育app报告表.
• Ask a person’s roommate if everything is okay because they are missing class.
• Ask a friend of the person potentially being or doing the harm to help intervene 和 check on them.

分散

Defusing a potential red dot by distracting those involved 和 interrupting the choice to make a red dot.

例子:

• Breaking up a heated argument by pretending your phone battery is dead 和 asking to borrow someone’s in the argument
• Accidentally spilling a drink on the guy who keeps forcing your drunk friend to dance with him.
• Setting off your car alarm in a parking lot w在这里 two people are fighting.

识别这些警告信号

• 将某人从他们的朋友圈中隔离出来
• Incessant texting — person receiving message seems anxious or upset by this
• Consistently showing up outside of classes without being asked to
• 不必要的触摸或接触
• Pressuring to consume alcohol or other drugs
• Monitoring of partner’s emails/texts/calls
• 行为的变化:
  • 变得孤僻
  • 情绪爆发/情绪波动
  • 丢失的课程
  • 取消活动

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